I didn't have a firm grasp on this subject, when I was younger but now I prided myself on being outspoken... about almost everything from life to the current issue that will concern my future generation. Especially so if it concern my present family now. I might become infamous but at times one have to be open with words so as not to make matter worst. For if no words are spoken then things might be too late for redemption. My life had taught me that being keeping quite or giving in was actually a disaster. We have to be brave to speak to protect your own family.
There are times I might have offended and annoyed people when I put my words so critically, sarcastically or offending. However this is more of a tragic as the words I said weren't the same things I was feeling. My heart would want to say and meant to say nice dissent and polite words, but words that came out would say something differently. But I'm sure most people picked up on my heart words mostly, right? Wrong!
But can you blame me totally about being too straight forward? Whether I am right or wrong but I feel at times one need to be as such BUT however it all depends on the environment and to the people that we speak to. There are people that are nice and gentle and to these people soft and friendly words will work. But some that are ruthless, thickheaded and for most arrogant, then these kinds need words of the opposite.
So generally, there's nothing wrong with the words that we speak but rather it is to whom, where and the situation that we are in that is more important.
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